There is a lot of talk about the patriarchal, sexist society, but not much is said about the breeding ground that fosters the growth of such male-dominated power structures. With reference to her own story, Caroline Rosales explains how little girls are conditioned to be sweet and polite and to give their uncle a quick kiss. And how these girls turn into women who care more about their counterparts than themselves. That’s something we need to change. Because there are many grey areas between our upbringing, abuse, and feminism. They are addresses them here.