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BECOMING EVE

Abby Chava Stein

My Journey From Ultra-Orthodox Rabbi to Transgender Woman

The powerful coming-out story of an ultra-Orthodox child who became a woman and a voice for gender freedom.
Abby Stein was raised in a Hasidic Jewish community in Brooklyn, isolated in a culture that lives according to the laws and practices of eighteenth-century Eastern Europe, speaking only Yiddish and Hebrew and shunning modern life. Stein was born as the first son in a dynastic rabbinical family, poised to become a leader of the next generation of Hasidic Jews.

But Abby felt certain at a young age that she was a girl. Without access to TV or the Internet, and never taught to speak English, she suppressed her desire for a new body while looking for answers wherever she could find them, from forbidden religious texts to smuggled secular examinations of faith. Finally, she orchestrated a personal exodus from ultra-Orthodox manhood to mainstream femininity-a radical choice that forced her to leave her home, her family, her way of life.

Powerful in the truths it reveals about biology, culture, faith, and identity, Becoming Eve poses the enduring question: How far will you go to become the person you were meant to be?

Abby Stein is the tenth-generation descendant of the Baal Shem Tov, the founder of the Hasidic movement. In 2015, Stein came out as a woman, and she now works as a trans activist. In 2019, she served on the steering committee for the Women's March in Washington, DC, and she was named by the Jewish Week as one of the "36 Under 36" Jews who are affecting change in the world. She has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, Vogue, InStyle, PopSugar, New York Post, New York magazine, The Forward, Refinery29, Vice, and on Fox News and CNN. She lives in New York City.
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Published 2019-11-12 by Seal Press

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A valuable addition to the body of transgender literature.

"'No agenda, just my story,' Abby Stein writes in the prologue to her fascinating memoir. And yet, her book delivers on a very definite agenda: helping us empathize with experiences radically different from our own. With humor and graceand impressive erudition of Jewish mysticism - Abby Stein grants us entry into a singular, otherworldly capsule: the byzantine world of Hasidic 'royal' families and the Sisyphean pursuit of living an authentic life within it."

"Becoming Eve is a powerful, moving story of grappling with both gender and faith. Abby Chava Stein is a compelling storyteller who shows us how to follow the voice withineven when everyone and everything around us is telling us not to."

A transgender woman recounts her evolution from a male-born child in the ultra-Orthodox Hasidic Jewish community to a thriving independent activist in this coming-of-age memoir.

"Becoming Eve is a vivid journey through Abby Stein's formative years in the Ultra-Orthodox Hasidic Jewish community as she struggles to find a more inclusive expression of her faith and learns to embrace her identity as a woman of trans experience."

"Abby Stein's soul-searching memoir grabbed me at the epigraph and never let me go. While religion is certainly a central element in the story, Becoming Eve is just as importantly about a different sense of faith: a belief in life's transformative potential to culminate in joy."

Abby Stein talks about leaving behind the Hasidic world and a rabbinical degree when she came out as a woman and activist of trans experience. Read more...

As Stein illuminates in the story of her departure and ostracism from the ultra-Orthodox Jewish community in which she was raised, dogmatic religion can contain love, but love should not and cannot be contained by dogmatic religion.

"Becoming Eve is a powerful, heartfelt account of the often fraught journey toward one's true self. In sharing her story, Abby Chava Stein lights the path for all of us who are embarking on journeys of our own."

Born into an ultra-Orthodox Jewish family, it was always expected that Abby Stein would become a leader in the Hasidic community. But Abby, born a male, knew at a very young age that she identified as a woman. Eventually, she broke free of her community's and family's expectations to become the person she wanted to be.

Becoming Eve has done something significant: document a world that taught [Stein] to rely on the same unabiding faith in God and mystical teaching that she eventually had the courage to follow on her own terms." Read more...

Coverage of the Limmud festival (Dec. 2019): ...a clear breakout star was 28-year-old transgender activist Abby Stein, who held nine separate sessions. Stein asked the same question in each of her sessions: "Who here has had a bar mitzvah?" Men would raise their hands. She'd then ask, "Who here has had a bat mitzvah?" Women would raise their hands. Finally, she'd ask, "Who here has had both?" And she'd shoot her hand in the air. Stein's final session based on her memoir, "Becoming Eve: My Journey From Ultra-Orthodox Rabbi to Transgender Woman," saw religious and nonreligious alike sitting on the floor, holding up walls, even perched on railings to hear her speak. Read more...

"Becoming Eve is a beautiful, haunting story of self-discovery. Stein's longing for truth, acceptance, and love will echo in the heart of every reader."

Becoming Eve is a wonderful addition to a growing corpus that deal with transition and spirituality, proving the two concepts are closely allied in myriad, surprising ways.

The book gives readers a frank look at what it was like to come of age misgendered in one of the world's most gender-segregated societies. More so, it's about Stein becoming the woman she is and about her finally being able to embrace Judaism on her terms.

A frank account of an exceptional life. Stein is a gifted writer, full of grace and compassion.

Book mention: In "Becoming Eve," Abby Chava Stein recounts the experiences leading to her becoming the first openly transgender person to emerge from the Hasidic world. ... Read more...