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HOW TO NOT DIE ALONE

Ury Logan

The Surprising Science of Finding Love

Behavioral scientist Logan Ury's funny and practical guide to understanding - and overcoming - the hidden forces keeping you from finding lasting love.
Have you ever looked around and wondered, "Why has everyone found love except me?" You're not the only one. Choosing a partner is harder now than ever before. A lasting relationship doesn't just appear in your life - it's the culmination of a series of decisions, including when to get out there, whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, when to settle down with the right one, and everything in between. Often we don't understand why we make certain choices, and that leads to mistakes. And those mistakes thwart us on our quest to find love.

Drawing from years studying psychology and relationships, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the faulty decision-making that prevent us from finding love. But awareness on its own doesn't lead to results. Knowing you shouldn't date "bad boys" or "manic pixie dream girls," for example, doesn't make them any less appealing - you have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how.

This book focuses on a different decision in each chapter - from setting up your dating app profile onward - and incorporates insights from behavioral science, original research, hands-on exercises, and stories about people just like you. It's designed to transform your love life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

Behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury is an internationally recognized expert on modern love. As the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, Logan leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. After studying psychology at Harvard, she ran Google's behavioral science team - The Irrational Lab - and created the popular interview series "Talks at Google: Modern Romance." She is also a TED Resident. Logan lives in San Francisco with her husband Scott and a gaggle of succulents. She credits her relationship success to the techniques outlined in How Not to Die Alone. Learn more about her at loganury.com or follow her @Logan_Ury.
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Published 2021-02-02 by Simon & Schuster

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How to Not Die Alone is a must-read for millennials navigating any stage of their relationship. The advice is clear, researched-based, and actually easy to follow. It's the perfect book for anyone who wants to up their dating game.

Logan Ury's practical, no-nonsense approach to dating is a masterclass in behavioral science. It's also warm, funny, and full of heart. How Not to Die Alone is an essential guide to debunking the myths of modern romance and finding a relationship that's truly worth investing in.

This book wisely reminds us that finding and holding on to love is not a mysterious divinely apportioned gift, it's a skill that can be taught and learnt by us all. Past failure does not have to be any indicator of future success - with this compelling book in hand.

In How to Not Die Alone, dating coach Logan Ury compiles the research on what trips people up when looking for love and lays it all out in a simple-to-use guide. If you need a perspective shift, this is a book you'll want to keep on hand as you navigate the modern dating terrain.

Why have you not found love? Logan Ury's How to Not Die Alone speaks to truths that your friends won't tell you. With a unique voice that offers clarity, action, and results, Ury's book promises to be a definitive guide for a generation navigating the murky waters of modern love.

This is an eye-opening book. Based on the best that social science has to offer, and written in an easy-to-understand style, full of useful exercises and checklists, Logan Ury has provided a guide that will help you avoid many of the traps people face in finding and keeping romantic relationships in today's world. And as a bonus, reading this book will surely help you make other big decisions in life that have nothing to do with romance.

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Ury has given all of us a host of excellent suggestions (and scientific information) on how to find, make, build and sustain a romantic, sexy and successful partnership.