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HOW TO FAKE BEING TIDY

Fenella Souter

And Other Things My Mother Never Taught Me

Funny true stories about the everyday dramas that can make or break friendships, cooking, housekeeping and the domestic chaos that always threatens to get the upper hand, written in the tradition of Nora Ephron.
"My mother wasn't much of a housekeeper. She wasn't much of a cook either, although she tried. She longed to live a more unconventional life. Admirably high-minded, but it meant I never learnt to fold a towel." In these funny, sometimes poignant, stories, award-winning feature writer Fenella Souter celebrates the highs and lows of domestic life - from her attempts to run the house like a grown-up, to lessons in good cooking; from accidentally killing her wisteria, divorcing the cat and shirt-fronting bossy tradies, to wondering if the 'hostess gift' is still a thing or why some people have impeccable taste. Fenella is a prose stylist of the highest order, and her wry, observational humour is very much in the tradition of the great Nora Ephron. Her book is aimed particularly at a generation of which many were raised in a world of genteel middle-class protocols and politenesses from which they have never been able to entirely shake themselves free. HOW TO FAKE BEING TIDY is a humorous book that at the same times manages to convey some very sage advice. Fenella Souter is an award-winning feature writer and former long-time editor of Good Weekend, in The Sydney Morning Herald and The Age, whose work has appeared in magazines and newspapers over many years. More recently, she has also worked as a radio producer, co-producing several documentary series for ABC Radio.
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Published 2021-03-01 by Allen & Unwin

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A glorious account of how the little things of life are, of course, the big things.

Every failed domestic goddess will rock with laughter.

This collection of gently humorous reflections on the domestic arts and the pleasures of pottering around the home is like one of those kitchen drawers where all the vital miscellany of daily life is stashed: the useful stuff (tips about removing stains), the quirky stuff (Zen and the art of linen folding) and the intangible keepsakes with powerful emotions attached (memories of her mother who died when Souter was 16). Bringing order to chaos is central to Souter's playful, love-hate relationship with being "clean and tidy", as is an abiding awareness of the "healing power of domestic therapy" during these times of trouble.

On every page I was amused, uplifted and moved by the possibility for grace and serenity hiding in the smallest domestic moment. Chuck out all your self-help guides to gratitude, mindfulness and finding meaning. This book is all you need.

Sweet, wise and very funny.