Skip to content
Responsive image
Vendor
Mohrbooks Literary Agency
Sebastian Ritscher
Original language
English
Categories

LISTEN LIKE YOU MEAN IT

Ximena Vengoechea

Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection

Listening, like any communication skill, can be improved--and Ximena Vengoechea can show you how.
For many of us, listening is simply something we do on autopilot. We hear just enough of what others say to get our work done, maintain friendships, and be polite with our neighbors. But we miss crucial opportunities to go deeper - to give and receive honest feedback, to make connections that will endure for the long haul, and to discover who people truly are at their core.

Fortunately, listening can be improved - and Ximena Vengoechea can show you how. In Listen Like You Mean It, she offers an essential listening guide for our times, revealing tried-and-true strategies honed in her own research sessions and drawn from interviews with marriage counselors, podcast hosts, life coaches, journalists, filmmakers, and other listening experts. Through Vengoechea's set of scripts, key questions, exercises, and illustrations, you'll learn to:
- Quickly build rapport with strangers
- Ask the right questions to deepen a conversation
- Pause at the right time to encourage vulnerability
- Navigate a conversation that's gone off the rails

Now more than ever, we need to feel heard, connected, and understood in a world that keeps turning up the volume. Warm, funny, and immensely practical, this book shows you how.

Ximena Vengoechea is a UX Research Manager at Pinterest, previously at Twitter and LinkedIn, and a contributor at Fast Company and The Muse, where she writes about personal and professional development. Her work has also been published in Inc., The Washington Post, Newsweek, and The Huffington Post.
Available products
Book

Published 2021-03-30 by Portfolio

Comments

Listen Like You Mean It is a delight - a secret handbook for mastering communication in the work world and beyond, from a world-class expert who writes like a friend.

Full of revealing, instantly applicable ideas for leveraging your strengths and overcoming your weaknesses.

Ximena Vengoechea on Life Audits, Listener Drain, and Reclaiming the Lost Art of True Connection Read more...

This zestful guide will inspire readers to listen better. Read more...

This is a book about generosity and dignity, about caring enough to actually let the truth come through. In the race to build the next big thing, too often we forget to build the right thing.

In her book, Vengoechea doesn't just offer tips and tricks on how to listen more intently; she goes deeper. Vengoechea also covers how to deepen conversations, how to handle them when they get tough, and how to get more out of them. Read more...

British Commonwealth: Pan Macmillan ; Korean: Daesung

An engaging and approachable book clearly crafted by a professional communicator, this is an essential guide to listening to and truly hearing others. A helpful read for personal and professional development, or an unsubtle gift for encouraging more meaningful conversations.

Now more than ever, we need to feel heard, connected, and understood in a world that keeps turning up the volume. Warm, funny, and immensely practical, this book shows you how. Read more...

Ximena Vengoechea talks about her modern listening playbook and how to reclaim the lost art of true connection. Read more...

Could there be a more relevant book for our times? While there are plenty of books on persuasion, none tells us how to influence others through the quiet art of understanding. Vengoechea implores us to truly hear other people (maybe for the first time) and is the perfect author of a book on why we should listen like we mean it.

Listen Like You Mean It brings an extremely underappreciated skill to the forefront, and illuminates practical ways we can all improve, whether we're designing products, trying to reach an agreement, or simply listening to a friend. The world would be a better place if we all developed a listening mindset.

A helpful guide to listening, especially for people in human resources or research careers who depend on keen observational skills to succeed.

Ximena's front-line experience as a researcher results in an impressive array of relatable stories and actionable tools to better understand each other and to create space for new ideas and honest feelings.

Being a good listener is a superpower - and extremely hard to do! Ximena shares with us immensely practical advice in a step-by-step playbook that delights, informs and inspires. A must read for anyone looking to build better relationships at work and grow in their career.

...Vengoechea details tactics that the rest of us can deploy in our own professional and personal relationships. ... Read more...

New Releases and More - this week, Liberty and Patricia discuss LISTEN LIKE YOU MEAN IT and other great books... Read more...