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Mitch Prinstein

The Power of Likability in a Status-Obsessed World

POPULAR examines why popularity plays such a key role in our development and, ultimately, our happiness.
Surprisingly, the most conventionally popular people are often not among the happiest. There is more than one type of popularity, and many of us still wish for the wrong one. As children, we strive to be likable, which can offer real benefits throughout our lives. In adolescence, however, a new form of popularity suddenly emerges that reflects status, power, influence, and notoriety that can be quantified by Facebook likes or YouTube hits and is often addictive. We cannot realistically ignore our natural human social impulses to be included and well regarded by others, but we can learn to manage them in beneficial and gratifying ways. POPULAR shows how to achieve the healthy type of popularity, not only for yourself but also for your children. More than childhood intellect, family background, or prior psychological symptoms, psychology has begun to discover that it’s our genuine popularity and likability in our early years that predict how happy we grow up to be. Mitch Prinstein, Ph.D. is the John Van Seters Distinguished Professor of Psychology and the Director of Clinical Psychology at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Mitch’s Peer Relations Lab, first at Yale University and then UNC, has conducted research on popularity and peer relations for almost 20 years, and his class on popularity has been among the most “popular” at both universities. He serves as the President for the Society for the Science of Clinical Psychology, and is a former member of the Board of Directors for the American Psychological Association. Mitch and his research have been featured in The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, National Public Radio, Los Angeles Times, CNN, US News and World Report, Time Magazine, New York Magazine, Newsweek, Reuters, Family Circle, Real Simple, and elsewhere.
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Published 2017-06-06 by Viking

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Review in London's Times: Popularity: it’s a life and death contest... Read more...

It turns out that there’s more to popularity than status. This book didn’t just capture my attention; it also helped me understand why I wasn’t cool as a kid, why I’m still not today, and why I shouldn’t care.

Who does not want to be more popular? When is that quest not in our best interest? Read Mitch Prinstein’s fascinating new bookPopularto discover new views on this vitally important topic.Popularoffers a brilliant take on a largely misunderstood subject, shedding light on the type of popularity we crave versus the type that will improve our lives.Based on provocative psychological research,Popularwill change how you think about your adolescence, your current relationships today, and ultimately help you become more truly happy in the future.

Fascinating, well-researched, and accessible, Popularwill make you rethink every social interaction you’ve had since high school, and help you find greater success and happiness. Read this book, and you'll never think about popularity the same way again.

Great interview in Vice Read more...

First serial in the NYT Read more...

UK: Vermilion/Ebury ; China: Beijing Wisdom & Culture ; Holland: Arbeiderspers ; Israel: Matar ; Korea: Wisdomhouse ; Romania: Publica ; Taiwan: Yuan-Liou

Populardeserves to be! A delightful and insightful analysis of the longing that makes us human.

Be Nice — You Won’t Finish Last: article on Mitch Prinstein's POPULAR Read more...

Intriguing…an eye-opening look at the ways of the world.

Author's article in Career's Section: Are You Popular at Work? Research Says It Matters... Read more...

Is popularity overrated? Maybe not — especially if it's the right kind of popularity that we seek. In this Mitch Prinstein’s fascinating book, you'll learn all about the benefits and pitfalls of being popular and how to make popularity work for you in business and in life.

We have all imprinted emotionally on the vicissitudes of our teenage years. Mitch Prinstein, in this compelling, page-turner, tells us why and also how we can shed the skins of our adolescence. Even better he tells us how our children can achieve meaningful popularity. A science-based Dale Carnegie.

A new book explores the dynamics of popularity, and the ways our high-school selves stay with us far beyond the teenage years... Read more...

Popular will show you how to build strong emotional appeal that enables you to stand out from the crowd and wildly succeed. More than ever, this book’s advice is important to parents, future leaders and go-getters everywhere.

Were you popular as a kid? You no doubt have an answer to that, but Mitch Prinstein wants you to have two: Status is one thing, and likability quite another. The origins of both types of popularity are the topic of this singularly fascinating, extraordinarily well-written book. I read it cover to cover and learned as much about the science as I did about myself.

This highly readable study, which successfully blends science and anecdotes, is strongly recommended.

We live in an age obsessed with popularity. Adults spend more and more of their time thinking, and behaving, like high school students. In a new book — called, yes, “Popular” — the psychologist Mitch Prinstein explores popularity with a scientist’s eye. Prinstein, a professor at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, argues that there are, in fact, two types of popularity and that we, as a culture, have settled on the more dysfunctional type. There is, he says, a better way. He answered questions from Mind Matters editor Gareth Cook... Read more...