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THRIVERS

Michele Borba

The Surprising Reasons Why Some Kids Struggle and Others Shine

The bestselling author of UnSelfie explains why the old markers of accomplishment (like grades and test scores) are no longer reliable predictors of success in the 21st century - and offers 7 teachable traits that will safeguard our kids for the future.
Michele Borba has been a teacher, educational consultant, and parent for 40 years - and she's never been more worried than she is about this current generation of kids. The high-achieving students she talks with every day are more accomplished, better educated, and more privileged than ever before. They're also more stressed, unhappier, and struggling with anxiety, depression, and burnout at younger and younger ages. "We're like pretty packages with nothing inside," said one young teen.

Thrivers are different: They flourish in our fast-paced, digital-driven, often uncertain world. Why? Dr. Borba interviewed more than 100 young people from all walks of life, and she found something surprising: The difference between those who struggle and those who succeed comes down not to grades or test scores, but to seven character traits that set Thrivers apart (and set them up for happiness and greater accomplishment later in life).

These traits--confidence, empathy, self-control, integrity, curiosity, perseverance, and optimism--will allow kids to roll with the punches and succeed in life. And the even better news: These traits can be taught to children at any age, and, in fact, parents and educations must do so.

Michele Borba, EdD, is the author of UnSelfie: Why Emphatheic Kids Succeed in Our All-About Me World, and is an internationally renowned educational psychologist and an expert in parenting, bullying, and character development. She is a regular NBC contributor who appears regularly on Today and has been featured as an expert on Dateline, The View, Dr. Phil, NBC Nightly News, Fox & Friends, Dr. Oz, and The Early Show, among many others. She lives in Palm Springs, California, with her husband, and is the mother of three grown sons.
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Published 2021-03-02 by Putnam

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Thrivers is the resource I've yearned for as a parent and teacher, an evidence-based, deeply researched instruction manual for helping kids thrive despiteand even because ofadversity.

Thrivers is the North Star every parent needs to point kids toward happiness, purpose, and true success. Emotional resilience can be taught, and Dr. Borba is the consummate teacher.

Thrivers offers both science-based information and respectful, practical, and effective tools. Full of activities and ideas to cultivate the skills and mindset kids need to thrive, Borba encourages parents to use everyday moments to respond in ways that build relational and neural connections to promote optimal development, independence, and success. More than ever, our children need us to parent in ways that promote growth and resilience in the face of adversity, and Thrivers can serve as an essential guide.

Why Empathy is The Gateway for Kids That Thriv?e?: "The best and fastest way to teach empathy is by modeling it. Show kids goodness through you." says Dr. Michele Borba on teaching empathy to our kids. ... Read more...

author appearance on NBC TV - Today Show: Michele Borba, educational psychologist and author of "Unselfie," talks to Hoda and Jenna about helping kids go back to school after the pandemic forced them out of the classroom last year. She shares warning signs that kids may be dealing with more than standard back-to-school fears, recommends helping kids connect even as they remain distant, and talks about how to help shy children feel comfortable in an online classroom. Read more...

Educational psychologist, best-selling author, and TODAY show contributor Dr. Michele Borba talks about her brand new book "Thrivers" about what it takes to raise resilient kids in an anxious world (and in a pandemic). Read more...

Bulgarian: Ciela Norma

Tessa and Michele meet again to discuss the intentional parenting needed in order to raise a child who THRIVES! Read more...

There's a huge gap between what we, as parents, say we want for our children (to be good people) and what our kids say we want for them (achievement). This book is the absolutely perfect book to help us close that gap, to help our children thrive and be all they can be!

Michele Borba is the coach, mentor, and motivator that today's parents crave. This brilliant guide - full of heart and backed by research - redefines success and shows us how to raise happier, healthier kids who will become champions of the things that last and matter. Dr. Borba tells us that raising Thrivers may be our greatest legacy as parents, and then she offers practical, actionable steps to make this vision a reality. I feel better equipped to lead my children after reading this game-changing book, and you will too.

Thrivers brilliantly weaves together research and stories that grab your heart as they teach you how to be the parent you hope to be--a stunning master class in parenting, from pre-K through adulthood. Dr. Borba shows us how to raise a generation of Thrivers our world so desperately needs.

Thrivers helps us to recognize that resilient kids are not simply born but are made. With the world in unprecedented distress, it is our job to make sure that our kids are prepared not only with high grades or prestigious college acceptances, but with the mental toughness, moral strength, and self-awareness that times of great challenge demand. If you add one book to your parenting bookshelf this year, make it Thrivers.

Thrivers can be summed up in one word, POWERFUL. In a world that is in crisis, with a generation that is emotionally crumbling, Borba gives us hope as well as the tools to help give our children and teens the moral courage they need to flourish in an unpredictable life. We must turn our strivers into thrivers! A mandatory read for every person who cares about raising kind, compassionate, and successful children.

Dr. Michele Borba combines her deep understanding of children with decades of research to offer the wise, practical guidance that parents urgently need today. Thrivers lays out clear, actionable, age-by-age steps for raising children of character. In doing so, this timely and important book focuses our attention where it truly belongs: on who - not what - our children will become.

7 character strengths to raise "Thrivers" Dr. Michele Borb?a? - Dr. Michele Borba goes over the what and how of these 7 teachable strengths most closely linked with resilience: self confidence. empathy. self regulation, Integrity, curiosity, perseverance and optimism. ... Read more...

Thrivers is a call to action. Our children are hurting, and Thrivers shows you the cost -- not only in accurately describing the challenges our children face but also showing how to make it better. I urge any person who cares about children and the health of our communities to read Thrivers and apply the wisdom and common sense advice you will find in its pages to every aspect of your life.

Thrivers is a must-read for parents and anyone who works with kids. It provides actionable tips and insights that will help adults give kids the tools they need to live their best lives.

Dateline Lucy: Do Your Kids Have Moral Courage??? - Dr. Michele Borba tells the story of Lucy who showed the world on a Dateline TV special how powerful kids can be, and just what it takes to be an Upstander. Parents, educators, and kids listening will learn how they can recognize cruelty & step in to stop bullying in their schools and communities. Kids don't come with instruction books, but through this podcast, Dr. Borba will communicate necessary information to help you cultivate a child with moral courage that you can be proud of! Way to go Lucy! Read more...

Dr. Michele Borba has been an educational psychologist for over 40 years, but has never been more concerned about kids and teens. In her latest book, THRIVERS, shows the urgency in updating current parenting and educational practices to follow science so children will have the potential to thrive and become their personal best. "They are not okay," she warns. "In fact, they are less happy and more stressed, lonely, depressed, and suicidal when compared with any previous generation - and those descriptions were identified prior to COVID-19." In short, our kids are failing to thrive, and if left as is will have grave consequences on our kids' futures... Read more...